Flirt with him on every level – with your body, with your eyes, and with your words. To make him even more entertained, make it subtle with double entendres and plays on words. The Aries man loves a clever woman who can keep him thinking on his toes.
This can be a quality that’s a little hard to come to terms with. Realize that it’s just a part of his personality and how he operates. Some will find it charming; others will find it painful. If you can find it charming, he’ll love you for it!
The downside of this is that they have very strong personalities and can be seen as rather bossy. When a fire sign gets too hot to touch, you may need to stand back to avoid “getting burnt. " If you can handle the heat, stay in the kitchen!
Take pleasure in knowing that you are actually dictating the moves while he is none the wiser. But don’t be the mouse that runs away and can’t be seen anymore – stay just out of his reach. Let him think he’s making progress and about to get you. If he doesn’t see progress happening, he’ll find another mouse to play with.
However, be careful with this. He likes being on top. If you prove him wrong, he may get emasculated and not be able to handle it. Give concessions. Agree to disagree or tell him that he’s made valid points that are getting you thinking. He really likes debating – he also really likes winning.
Not only is this good advice for Aries, but it’s good advice for everyone. Ever heard of the Capilano Bridge Experiment? Turns out there’s such a thing as a “misattribution of arousal” – meaning that when your body gets aroused (be it from heights or horror, etc. ), you don’t know why – and you attribute it to the sexiness of your partner!
That being said, Aries are full of great qualities, too (otherwise you wouldn’t be attracted to them in the first place!) They are driven, confident, charismatic, clever, sensual creatures. Their less positive traits are just more obvious because their personalities are so strong. They engage in creative or competitive pursuits, acting, singing, theater, or public speaking. [6] X Expert Source Stina GarbisPsychic Astrologer Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
Because of this, it’s important that you maintain your own self in this relationship. Keep up your hobbies, have a world they’re not a part of. That way Aries will feel like there’s more territory they need to gain, a more thorough understanding they can have of you. They don’t want their partner to be easily figured out![7] X Expert Source Jessica LanyadooAstrologer & Psychic Medium Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.
In addition to impulsive sexual behavior, be impulsive with your lifestyle! Surprise gifts, surprise trips, spur-of-the-moment changes in plans – Aries will eat it up. They’ll spend every day wondering what the next will have in store. And looking forward to it!
This goes back to Aries needing praise and attention. Even if he seems self-assured and like he needs nothing, it’s not true. He still needs others, craving their approval and notice. These little displays of your awesome observational skills will let him know you’re there and giving him just what he needs.
Aries wants a partner that is their own spirit. When you start attaching onto his, you’re cramping his style. Be confident in your relationship! It’s the sexiest thing there is.
Don’t be afraid to show your emotions. Aries thrives off of stimuli and sensation. If something makes you excited, preach it on the hilltops! And if your Aries is showing you how much he cares, definitely give him the reaction he’s aiming for!
Allow yourself to get vulnerable with him. Though he can be erratic and moody and fiercely independent, showing him you can get real will show him he, in turn, can get real too. He’ll love seeing the softer, genuine side of you. And he’ll love that you trust him enough to do so!
