For example, if you and this girl enjoy watching movies, watch a movie together. If you’re both avid sports fans, you could attend a local sports game and give her a kiss when your team scores.
Even if you don’t kiss right away, this can be a great way to build anticipation for the kiss. Try leaning in closer to her, but stopping a few inches from her face so your lips are just out of her reach. Look her in the eyes and smile to let her butterflies fly inside her belly, creating anticipation. Keep moving your eyes from her eyes to her lips to make it clear you’re interested in kissing her.
Try saying something like, “You are so beautiful,” or “I love spending time with you. ” Make sure that you say something genuine to her. Don’t lie or flatter her because you think she will kiss you if you do.
Try taking this opportunity to look at her closely and appreciate her beauty. You could even run your thumb across her lips before you kiss her and gaze into her eyes for a few seconds before you kiss her.
Make sure to be gentle when you touch her face or neck. Grabbing her roughly in these areas could hurt her and ruin the mood.
For an even more memorable moment, you could lift her up into your arms while you kiss her or pull her onto your lap if you’re sitting down. However, only do this if she seems to be enjoying the kiss.
For example, if she runs her fingers through your hair, you might respond by softly stroking her hair, back, or arm. If she pushes away from you when you kiss her, take a step back from her as well to let her know you won’t do it again. You could even say something like, “I’m sorry. Was that too fast?”
Avoid sucking on her neck or other areas of her body. This will leave unsightly bruises and it can be painful.
